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A Much-Needed Conversation |
The other night, I posted this headline on the “politics” section of Reddit: “Vote up if you’re a religious person and you fully support marriage and adoption rights for gays. We need to show that not all people of faith are bigots.”
Much to my surprise, the post immediately began to receive down votes and negative comments. When I asked why, this remarkable conversation ensued. It involved myself (”J”) and another “Redditor” I’ll call “R”. At first, the discussion was hostile and defensive, but the more we talked, the more we realized that we are not enemies. We certainly have some differences on the issue of religion and gay rights, but we discovered by the end of the conversation that we are standing on the same side of the struggle.
This is the type of conversation spiritual and secular progressives need to be having. To learn more about an event called “Progressive Summit”, which seeks to bring these two groups to the table, check out this Facebook Group.
(Note: Because of the way comments on Reddit function, the following is a compilation of several comment threads that developed under this post.)
J: Could someone please explain to me why this post has been so quickly downmodded?
R: You need to show us with actions, not words. Pull out of the churches. It’s the funding that moderate Christians give each Sunday that is used to fund political actions such as the ‘yes on eight’ campaign. You personally might not be a bigot, but you knowingly fund the bigots. Until that changes you’re not changing anything. You act nice, expecting everyone to say, “You’re not to blame, we were wrong about all Christians,” but then the next sunday you’ll put money in the collection plate and it goes straight to the people you call bigots.
J: I’m sorry, but you are wrong. As a pastor, I know very well where my church’s money goes, and none of it goes to support things like Prop 8. In fact, it goes to support a denomination which is in the process of approving the ordination of gays. Please stop generalizing and making assumptions about all Christians because some have chosen to act out of bigotry. You are practicing a form of bigotry yourself.
R: You are currently defending the Christians who were involved, making you an accomplice after the fact. You may not have done the deed personally, but you are perpetuating the problem by protecting the people responsible. That’s why people think all Christians are a unified group…Christians automatically defend the ’separate group of Christians’ who wronged the community. I am really, truly, deeply looking forward to seeing some actions to show you are going to side with the opressed and not the oppressors. Until then your words are an empty gesture.
J: Please tell me how I have defended the Christians who supported Prop 8. I have no idea where you are getting this idea. And you can see the last 12 years of my life as evidence of standing up for the oppressed. You have no basis for making the accusations you are making.
R: Whoa there. You’ve disregarded the point that when it comes down to it, churches still tip the balance on legislation like prop 8.
J: Old people also tipped the balance. As did blacks and Hispanics. Are you going to blame every single old, black, and Hispanic person for Prop 8? That’s the logic you are using against churches.
R: Those groups didn’t bankroll the media campaign. (Neither did your group, apparently) The Mormon church led the effort and the Catholics came in second. Those organized religions are responsible for their actions, and their congregations are responsible for providing the funding and supporting the cause (with their membership).
J: So let’s gang up on the Mormons and Catholics. And the Southern Baptists, too!
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R: So we’re past words here, it’s time for you to act. If you want to actually help solve the problem of religions being used to operate and fund projects like the “yes on eight” campaign, then leave the church in protest over it. Let that be your message, that Christianity should not be a lobby group, it should be about Jesus and the good news.
J: Not all churches support Prop 8. In fact, many of us are working hard for gay rights within our denominations. Mine, the PCUSA, is in the process of approving the ordination of gays. Christians are a very diverse group of people, a fact which is often overlooked in these heated political debates.
R: My point is simple. You say you oppose these people, but we see you attacking their critics. But there is no proof you opposed poposition 8 before or after it passed. So all we have are words, when we want to see actions (they speak louder). Something like that, people could see it and rally behind it. Words alone…you’re another voice telling us we’re not allowed to criticize any Christian denomination for any reason.
J: I’m all for you criticizing the churches that supported Prop 8. I’ll give you some Scipture to use against them, if you’d like.
R: Tempting. ^_^
J: John 3:16 - “Whosoever believes in him shall not perish, but have eternal life.” Whosoever is a word that excludes no one.
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R: As long as there is any basis in Christianity for opposition to homosexuality (e.g., Leviticus, Romans - Bible!), anti-gay beliefs and actions will be propagated. Either change Christianity’s book or drop it altogether.
J: There is plenty of Scriptural basis for affirming gay rights - starting with “love your neighbor.” Myself, I prefer the “meta-narrative” - the overall story of the Bible that is about God’s radical love and acceptance of all human beings - a fact which was reflected in the the life of Jesus Christ. But I’m not trying to convert anyone here. I’m just trying to show that many Christians are for gay rights and are taking plenty of action to make it happen.
R: I don’t buy it. What gives you the license to interpret the Bible to your own ends? Either way, most Christians stick to their guns because they were told by Christian leaders or directly by the book (not that it speaks), that homosexuality is wrong. There’s no excusing Christians or Christianity for their role in propagating bigotry. I’m not saying that I criticize you personally for fighting for gay rights - you’d be a good Canadian and we’d welcome you. But at the same time, please try to understand that Christianity’s never going to get a pass for its intolerances, implicit or explicit.
J: And it shouldn’t get a pass. But please be open to the fact that the church is changing, albeit ever so slowly, and please don’t pounce on someone just because they admit to being a religious person. Give them a chance to show their bigotry, and then pounce on them!
R: The PCUSA sounds like it has some potential though. Ordination of homosexuals would be a big step. So, we’ll see.









R: The classic pattern is that one group of Christians do something bad, then all the rest join up and say, “You can’t criticize them, that’s church bashing, most of us weren’t involved”. But they are involved with funding and with defending the antagonists in their midst.